Sources have varied on the number of Young's wives due to differences in what observers have considered to be a "wife".[1] It has been confirmed that there were fifty-six women that Young was sealed to during his lifetime. While the majority of the sealings were "for eternity" (i.e., in the afterlife), some were "for time only" (until death). In both of these types of sealings, a conjugal relationship could exist, though Young reportedly did not enter into conjugal relationships with at least six of his wives.[1]:58,62 Young did not live with a number of his wives or publicly hold them out as wives, which has led to confusion on numbering.[1]:59 A book published in 1887 gives brief biographical sketches of twenty-six wives (with pictures of twenty).[5]
Of his fifty-six wives, twenty-one had never been married before; seventeen were widows; six were divorced; six had living husbands; and the marital status of six others is unknown.[1] Nine of his wives had previously been plural wives of Joseph Smith, and Young was sealed to them as a proxy for Smith.[1]
Four of his wives were sealed to him during Smith's lifetime, sixteen after Smith's death but before the completion of the Nauvoo Temple, nineteen in the Nauvoo Temple, four during his journey from Nauvoo to the Salt Lake Valley, and eleven in Utah.[1] One of Young's spouses Zina Huntington was married to multiple men at the same time, and was pregnant from another living man when she married Young in a polyandrous marriage.[6]:78
At the time of Young's death, twenty of his wives had predeceased him, he was divorced from ten, and twenty-three survived him, with the status of four unknown.[1] In his will, Young shared his estate with the seventeen surviving wives who had lived with him; the six surviving non-conjugal wives were not mentioned in the will.[1] A number of women were sealed to him posthumously, but this number is also highly debated, as various sealing records from this time are incomplete or missing.[7]
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During Young's lifetime, there was a lot of public speculation as to the total number of his wives and children. Estimates in newspapers ranged anywhere from forty to two hundred, and Young often refrained to comment on these estimates, whether to confirm or deny them.[8]Artemus Ward, a well-known comedian at the time, shared a speculation of his own after a journey to Utah: "I have somewhere stated that Brigham Young is said to have eighty wives. I hardly think he has so many... I undertook to count his long stockings on the clothes-line in the back yard, one day, and I used up the multiplication table in less than half an hour."[9]
Eighteen of Young's wives and their children traveled to Utah with the Brigham Young Company in 1848.[10][11] Young would often attend cultural events and public gatherings with his wives, usually only one, and his children. Near the end of his life, Amelia Folsom (m. 1863) would become his most significant female companion, and would often accompany Young to dances and to the theater, as well as on tours of the Mormon settlements.[12][pageneeded] He was a very prominent public figure in Utah, as well as in other Mormon communities, and thought it very important for himself and his family to be well-educated in the arts and culture.[2] Young wanted to make his home a model which others could emulate, and is reported by his children to have been a loving, caring, and concerned husband and father.[13]
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A front view showing the Lion House (left) and Beehive House (far right), circa 1856.
In 1856, Young built the Lion House to accommodate his sizable family. This building remains a Salt Lake City landmark, together with the Beehive House, another Brigham Young family home built in 1854. Young primarily resided in the Beehive House with his wife Mary Ann Angel, but would gather together the entire family each evening at the Lion House for prayer and dinner.[12][pageneeded] Angell later chose to move into the nearby White House sometime after 1860.[12][pageneeded] Before Young's death he also had the Gardo House built as a guest house across the street from the others, which would have Amelia Folsom (m. 1863) as its primary resident.[14] The Young household also had various servants, including the adopted Bannock girl Sally Young Kanosh, and Isaac and Jane Manning James.[12][pageneeded] A contemporary of Young wrote: "It was amusing to walk by Brigham Young's big house, a long rambling building with innumerable doors. Each wife has an establishment of her own, consisting of parlor, bedroom, and a front door, the key of which she keeps in her pocket".[15]
Within the Young household there was an arranged cooperative effort among the wives and children.[14] Many wives served in particular roles, such as Zina Huntington (m. 1846), who served as the family's midwife, and Naamah Carter (m. 1846), who took charge of the Lion House family meals.[12][pageneeded] Young's children were taught in the basement of the Lion House by Harriet Cook (m. 1843), until the construction of Young's own schoolhouse in 1865 and the subsequent hiring of a full-time teacher.[16] Young also maintained a recreation room outfitted with a stage for variety shows and theatrical productions, as well as a long porch to serve as a gymnasium. He kept teachers in order to instruct the children in physical activities such as fencing, gymnastics, and dance.[16] A family swimming pool was also constructed east of the Beehive House, which was occasionally used for baptisms.[16]
Still married to husband William Seeley, whom she had married at the age of fourteen
Sealed for time and eternity
7 with Young, 3 with Seeley
First plural wife of Brigham Young.[1]:60 She and Young had seven children, in addition to her three from her marriage to Seeley.[12]:94
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November 2, 1843(1843-11-02) (aged42)
Augusta Adams (1802–1886), aged 40 at marriage
Married to non-Mormon Henry Cobb (divorced in 1847).
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 8 with Cobb
Left Boston with Young in September 1843, leaving behind her husband and most of her children.[12]:101–102 Young later married her son James Cobb's ex-wife, Mary Van Cott Cobb (m. 1868).[12]:374-375 Grandmother of architect Henry Ives Cobb.
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November 2, 1843(1843-11-02) (aged42)
Harriet Elizabeth Cook (1824–1898), aged 19 at marriage
First marriage
Sealed for time and eternity
1 with Young
Initially stayed behind in Nauvoo with her and Young's infant son, before joining him at Winter Quarters in 1847.[12]:102,154
6
May 8, 1844(1844-05-08) (aged42)
Clarissa Caroline Decker (1828–1889), aged 15 at marriage
First marriage
Sealed for time and eternity
5 with Young
Sister of Lucy Ann Decker (m. 1842).[12]:102 One of three women to be part of the first pioneer company traveling to the Salt Lake Valley in 1847. She adopted Sally, a young Bannock girl who had been captured and sold to Charles Decker by a slave trader.[12]:215
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September 1844 (aged 43)
Emily Dow Partridge (1824–1899),[20] aged 20 at marriage
Sealed to Joseph Smith for eternity and to Young for life.[12]:133–134 The sister of Lorenzo Snow, the fifth president of the LDS Church. Snow was a prominent figure in the church and the second general president of the Relief Society.[23]
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October 3, 1844(1844-10-03) (aged43)
Elizabeth Fairchild (1828–1910), aged 16 at marriage[24]
First marriage (later divorced)
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 3 with later husbands
Obtained an official certificate of divorce from Young in 1855 after two remarriages.[12]:193,450[1]:63
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October 8, 1844(1844-10-08) (aged43)
Clarissa Blake (1796–1863), aged 48 at marriage
Widow of Edmund Morse; Married to Mormon husband Lyman Homiston at the time of her sealing to Young
Sealed for time and eternity
None
Slighted by Young upon his departure from Nauvoo. Later traveled to Utah with her husband to reconcile with Young and was rebuffed.[12]:156
13
October 9, 1844(1844-10-09) (aged43)
Rebecca Greenleaf Holman (1824–1849), aged 20 at marriage
First marriage
Sealed for time and eternity
None
Died on the journey to the Salt Lake Valley and is buried in Council Bluffs, Iowa.[18]:635
14
October 10, 1844(1844-10-10) (aged43)
Diana Chase (1827–1886), aged 17 at marriage
First marriage (later divorced)
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 10 with Shaw
Daughter of Ezra Chase.[12]:135 Married to William Shaw in 1849 following her divorce from Young.[12]:193[1]:63
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October 12, 1844 (aged 43)
Maria Lawrence (1823-1847),[25] aged 20 at marriage
Plural widow of Joseph Smith
Sealed for time
None
Many sources do not mention her as being one of Young's wives.[1][12][pageneeded] Married Almon W. Babbitt in 1846 in Nauvoo shortly before her death.
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October 31, 1844(1844-10-31) (aged43)
Susanne Snively (1815–1892), aged 29 at marriage
First marriage
Sealed for time and eternity
1 with Young (adopted)
Lived for many years on Young's large Forest Farm on the outskirts of Salt Lake City.[17]:149
17
November 7, 1844(1844-11-07) (aged43)
Olive Grey Frost (1816–1845),[26] aged 28 at marriage
Plural widow of Joseph Smith
Sealed for time
None
Sealed to Joseph Smith for eternity and Young for life.[17]:220 Died in childbirth a year after her marriage to Young.[18]:636
Sister of Mary Pierce (m. 1845).[12]:140 Sealed to Whitesides for eternity and Young for time.[12]:136 Originally had wished to be sealed to Young for eternity rather than to Whitesides, but Young protested, saying he did not wish to "rob the dead."[12]:403
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January 16, 1845(1845-01-16) (aged43)
Mary Harvey Pierce (1821–1847), aged 25 at marriage
First marriage
Sealed for time
None
Sister of Margaret Pierce (m. 1845).[12]:140 Died of consumption at Winter Quarters, Nebraska.[12]:157 Along with Margaret, the daughter of Robert and Hannah Pierce, who were later ritually adopted by Young.[12]:140
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April 30, 1845(1845-04-30) (aged43)
Emmeline (Emeline) Free (1826–1875), aged 18 at marriage
First marriage
Sealed for time and eternity
10 with Young (more than any other wife)
Frequently accompanied Young to social gatherings, and was regarded by many as Young's favorite.[12]:192 Felt slighted by Young's later marriages and became addicted to morphine.[12]:325, 380
Plural widow of Joseph Smith and married to non-Mormon Adam Lightner
Sealed for time
None with Young, 10 with Lightner
Sealed to Joseph Smith for eternity and to Young for time.[12]:134 As a child, she and her sister are credited with rescuing papers that would later make up the Doctrine and Covenants from a mob upon the burning of the printing press in Independence, Missouri.[28] Remained living with Lightner in Wisconsin, Minnesota, and Missouri until her death.[12]:154
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January 14, 1846(1846-01-14) (aged44)
Margaret Maria Alley (1825–1852), aged 20 at marriage
Arrived in the Salt Lake Valley with the Young family in September 1848.[29]
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January 28, 1846(1846-01-28) (aged44)
Jemima Angell (1803–1869), aged 41 at marriage
Widow of Valentine Young (no relation) and separated from William Stringham prior to her 1846 marriage to Young
Sealed for time and eternity
None with (Brigham) Young, 5 with (Valentine) Young
Married Young on the same day as her mother Phebe (m. 1846).[18]:636 Younger sister of Mary Ann Angell (m. 1834).[12]:134
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January 28, 1846(1846-01-28) (aged44)
Abigail Marks (1781–1846), aged 69 at marriage
Widow of Asa Works
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 9 with Works
Mother of Young's first wife, Miriam Works.[17]:221 Sealed to Works for eternity and to Young for time.[12]:134
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January 28, 1846(1846-01-28) (aged44)
Phebe (alt. Phoebe) Ann Morton (1786–1854), aged 59 at marriage
Previously married to James W. Angell (estranged)
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 11 with Angell
Mother of both Mary Ann Angell (m. 1834) and Jemima Angell (m. 1846). Young's mother-in-law at the time of their marriage.[17]:222 Sealed to Angell for eternity and to Young for time.[12]:134
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January 28, 1846(1846-01-28) (aged44)
Cynthia Porter (1783–1861), aged 62 at marriage
Married to William Weston
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 2 with Weston
Unknown if she was widowed, divorced, or separated from Weston.
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January 31, 1846(1846-01-31) (aged44)
Mary Eliza Nelson (1812–1886), aged 33 at marriage
Married to Mormon Henry Bailey Jacobs, plural widow of Joseph Smith
Sealed for time
1 with Young, 2 with Jacobs
Third general president of the Relief Society, and played a prominent role in the Society's reorganization.[12]:379 Sealed to Joseph Smith for eternity and to Young for time (not sealed to Jacobs).[12]:136-138 Transitioned to living with the Young family while Jacobs was on a mission to England. Served as the Young family midwife while living in the Lion House.[12]:236 Mother of Zina P. Young Card.
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February 3, 1846(1846-02-03) (aged44)
Amy Cecilia Cooper (1804–1852), aged 41 at marriage
Married to (non-Mormon?) Joseph Aldrich.
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 1 with Aldrich
Later separated from Aldrich.
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February 3, 1846(1846-02-03) (aged44)
Mary Ellen de la Montaigne (1803–1894), aged 42 at marriage
divorced from James Boyd Woodward
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 4 with Woodward
Ritually adopted by Young as his daughter (along with her husband), before being sealed to him two days later as his wife.[12]:132 Divorced Young and remarried Woodward.[1]:63
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February 3, 1846(1846-02-03) (aged44)
Julia Foster (1811–1891), aged 36 at marriage
Widow of Mormon Jonathan Hampton, who died in Nauvoo in 1844
Sealed for time
None with Young, 5 with previous husbands
Joined the church in 1833 after being converted by Young.[12]:35 Stayed in Illinois when Young emigrated to Utah in 1847. Married Thomas Cole after the death of her first husband, but was later abandoned. Young sent for her in 1855, and she came with her children and managed the Lion House.[12]:134, 239-240
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February 3, 1846(1846-02-03) (aged44)
Abigail Harback (1790–1849), aged 55 at marriage
Previously married to John Calvin Hall (unknown if she was widowed, divorced, or separated)
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 9 with Hall.
Died in Massachusetts. Circumstances surrounding her marriage to Hall and Young, as well as her time in Nauvoo, are unclear.
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February 3, 1846(1846-02-03) (aged44)
Mary Ann Turley (1827–1904), aged 18 at marriage
First marriage (later divorced)
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 9 with Cook
Divorced Young in January 1851 and moved to the San Bernardino, California colony.[12]:193[1]:63 Met and married John Cook in California.
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February 6, 1846(1846-02-06) (aged44)
Naamah Carter (1821–1909), aged 24 at marriage
Widow of John S. Twiss
Sealed for time
None
First husband passed away shortly after marriage. Helped prepare the sealing rooms in the Salt Lake Endowment House.[12]:231 Originally had wished to be sealed to Young for eternity rather than to Twiss, but Young protested, saying he did not wish to "rob the dead."[12]:403
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February 6, 1846(1846-02-06) (aged44)
Nancy Cressy (1780–1871), aged 65 at marriage
Widow of Oliver Walker
Sealed for time
None with Young, 10 with Walker
Sealed for eternity to Walker and for time to Young.[18]:637 Came to the Salt Lake Valley in Young's company.
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February 10, 1846(1846-02-10) (aged44)
Jane Terry (1819–1847), aged 26 at marriage
Widow of George W. Young (no relation)
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 2 with previous husbands
Requested on her deathbed to be sealed to Young.[12]:157 Died four days after their marriage in Winter Quarters, Nebraska.[17]:223 Sealing was reconfirmed in 1869 in the Salt Lake Endowment House.
Mary Jane Bigelow (1827–1868), aged 19 at marriage
First marriage (later divorced)
Sealed for time and eternity
None
Sister of Lucy Bigelow (m. 1847). Married Young at Winter Quarters, but turned back when she became ill.[12]:193 Later arrived in Utah in 1850. Divorced Young sometime before 1851.[1]:63
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April 18, 1848(1848-04-18) (aged46)
Sarah Malin (1804–1858), aged 43 at marriage
First marriage (later divorced)
Sealed for time and eternity
None
Married Young on the same day that he sealed her father to a wife.[12]:157
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October 3, 1852(1852-10-03) (aged51)
Eliza Burgess (1827–1915), aged 25 at marriage
First marriage
Sealed for time and eternity
1 with Young
Traveled from England to Nauvoo with her family before heading west to the Salt Lake Valley.[17]:223 Lived in the Young household as a servant before her sealing to Young.[12]:237-238
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December 16, 1852(1852-12-16) (aged51)
Mary Oldfield (1793–1875), aged 59 at marriage
Widow of Eli Kelsey and divorced from John Pierce and John Gribble
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 7 with Kelsey
Sealed to Young for time and eternity, but never joined the Young household.[12]:238
Daughter of architect William Folsom. Accomplished pianist and vocalist. Lived in the Gardo House along with Mary Ann Angell (m. 1834) after Young's death.[12]:377 Rumored to be Young's favorite wife, and was his most significant female companion during the latter years of his life.[12]:327 Married John Quincy Leavitt after Young's death.
Acted in various minor roles at the Salt Lake Theatre and was friends with several of Young's daughters and wives. Lived with her mother in a cottage built for her by Young following their sealing.[12]:375 Sought a civil divorce from Young in 1875 and later became an outspoken critic of polygamy.[1]:63 Author of her 1875 autobiography Wife No. 19.[12]:327 Later married and divorced Moses R. Denning.
Born in Wales.[17]:224 Owned an inn called the "White Lion," and hosted various groups of Mormon missionaries. Her son, Thomas Lewis, was castrated in October 1856 by an extralegal posse. Lived on Young's Forest Farm property following their sealing.[12]:375-376
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May 8, 1870(1870-05-08) (aged68)
Lydia Farnsworth (1808–1897), aged 61 at marriage
Married to Elijah Mayhew
Sealed for time and eternity
None with Young, 9 with Mayhew
Expressed her strong desire to be sealed to Young for years, until his concession in 1870.[1]:64 Sealed to Young for eternity but remained living with husband Mayhew.[12]:376
Known for her poetry.[1]:64 Sealed to Young but remained living with husband King.[12]:376
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Various women have been listed in published accounts as being sealed to Young, though there is no evidence confirming their sealings. While some could possibly have been his wives and merely lack conclusive evidence to be proven as such, other claims have been completely disproven.[17][pageneeded]
Nancy Chamberlain, who Ann Eliza Webb claimed was one of Young's wives during one of her anti-Mormon lectures.
Charlotte Cobb, daughter of Augusta Adams Cobb (m. 1843)
Mina A. Cook, listed in the 1860 census record as belonging to the Young household. No other information is provided to determine marital status.
Susan Taffindor, listed in the 1860 census record as belonging to the Young household. No other information is provided to determine marital status.
Eliza Y. Young, listed in the 1860 census record as belonging to the Young household. No other information is provided to determine marital status.
Margaret G., reported by an apostate Mormon Samuel Hawthornthwaite as being married to Young. Given the lack of surname for Margaret, investigation becomes difficult.
Talula Gibson, daughter of Walter Murray Gibson and was listed in the 1860 census as belonging to the Young household. No marriage record has been found.