Lessons for Women

Lessons for Women (Chinese: 女誡), also translated as Admonitions for Women, Women's Precepts, or Warnings for Women, is a work by the Han dynasty female intellectual Ban Zhao (45/49–117/120 CE). As one of the Four Books for Women, Lessons had wide circulation in the late Ming and Qing dynasties (i.e. 16th–early 20th centuries). Ban Zhao made the "Admonitions for Women" for her daughters.

Lessons for Women
Traditional Chinese	女誡
Simplified Chinese	女诫
Literal meaning	women's admonitions
Transcriptions Standard Mandarin Hanyu Pinyin nǚjiè Wade–Giles Nü3-chieh4

Outline

Lessons outlines the four virtues a woman must abide by, proper virtue, proper speech, proper countenance, and proper conduct. The book itself describes the status and position of women in society. It is a small book and many women had the sections memorized.^{[citation needed]} The book contains only 7 chapters as outlined below.

Contents

Chapter	Chinese	Pinyin	Translation	Subject
1	卑弱 / 卑弱	Bēi ruò	Humbleness	Humbleness defined the relative natural positions between the male and female sexes. Accordingly, the female was deemed to be the more diminutive of the two and naturally, the more humble.
2	夫婦 / 夫妇	Fūfù	Husband and Wife	A husband must govern with dignity and a wife must serve her husband wisely. So that a wife may know how to serve her husband, daughters should be educated.
3	敬慎 / 敬慎	Jìng shèn	Respect and Caution	As defined by the yin-yang duality, in yang (men's hardness is his virtue) whereas in yin (women's gentleness was an asset), husband and wife should mutually respect each other.
4	婦行 / 妇行	Fù xíng	Womanly Qualifications	Simply the qualifications deemed necessary for the ideal woman whether in her virtue, her type of work, or the words she uses (womanly virtue + womanly speech + womanly appearance + womanly work).
5	專心 / 专心	Zhuānxīn	Whole-hearted Devotion	This was usually depicted by the woman's devotion to the husband. For example, if the husband were to die, there would be no remarriage for the widow. This was deemed to be the most virtuous task in later dynasties.
6	曲從 / 曲从	Qū cóng	Implicit Obedience	A section that is dedicated to obedience towards the mother and father-in-law.
7	叔妹 / 叔妹	Shū mèi	Harmony Between Younger In-laws

Precepts for Women

Ban Zhao also wrote on the four desired "Precepts for Women" which were intended to guide women in society. These precepts were: womanly virtue, womanly speech, womanly manner, and womanly merit.

"There are four edifying behavioural characteristics for women: the first is womanly virtue (fude), the second is womanly speech (fuyan), the third is womanly manner (fuyong), and the fourth is womanly merit (fugong). What is womanly virtue? She does not distinguish herself in talent and intelligence. What is womanly speech? She does not sharpen her language and speech. What is womanly manner? She does not seek to be outwardly beautiful or ornamented. What is womanly merit? She does not outperform others in her skills and cleverness."^[1]

See also

• Book of Han