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Subtle behaviors causing mistrust in a relationship From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

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Microcheating (also micro-cheating) is a controversial aspect of the definition of infidelity, covering activities that were not traditionally considered infidelity, but can be viewed as breaches of trust leading to the ultimate betrayal in a relationship or its breakdown. Examples can be very diverse: taking off a wedding band when going to a party, spending extra time with a person one finds sexually attractive, browsing profiles on a dating app.[1] The term is a neologism, with limited scholarship available as of mid-2020s, and subject mostly discussed in the mass media and on the Internet, where it was apparently popularized by an Australian TV personality Melanie Schilling.[2][3][4][5][6]

The concept might become an issue in a relationship if a couple (or one partner) takes it to extremes. For example, the arrangement where a lunch out or interaction on the social media with a person that could become a potential partner are off-limits, signals a basic lack of trust and an unreasonable expectation that partners in the relationship should be the only source of friendship, energy, entertainment, and inspiration for each other. Instead, partners in secure relationship might accept that world is full of potential other partners, do not consider attractiveness of others threatening and potentially use the situation as a source of eroticism. The reasonable boundaries might be defined by intent behind the actions, identified by the presence of secrecy, emotional intimacy, sexual chemistry.[1]

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